ALTHey my name’s Marc. I’m a disabled furry of color and a queer, intersex sculptor from Honolulu. Pictured above is my fursona, and we both use he and 他/祂 pronouns.
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Transphobes make being trans sound so cool. Like trans men sound like they are possessed by the devil? That sounds AWSOME .
hey so i know video essays are getting popular and this website is Painfully White, and i wanted to use this as an opportunity to uplift one of my favorite video essayists, lil bill.
his most recent video ^ is about the wage gap and the wnba, actually debunking bullshit excuses with statistics. he’s also done some of my favorite videos on black history, such as the commodification of the hood and the very black history of punk rock. he’s also working on a project that gives kids in the neighborhood he grew up in backpacks and school supplies, so go give that some support if you can!
If you are trans block @/gendiebrainrotreceipts. that account has reblogged multiple of my posts about trans men’s issues and lead to me getting harassed.
And of course everytime they reblog my post they only reblog the radfem additions that have no sources and not my response linking sources proving my point. Because once again TERFs prove that despite them going “we include TIFs in our feminism 🥺” they don’t care about trans men dying bc they care more about cis women’s comfort.
yall do realize just because something has been a target of misogynistic criticism, that doesn't make stanning it completely uncritically in response some kind of revolutionary feminist praxis. right.
like i hate to break this to you but plenty of people who dislike taylor swift have better reasons for it than 'she's a successful woman'. plenty of people who dislike twilight are not jumping on a decade plus-old hate train of 'teenage girls like it'. pure personal taste aside, someone pointing out the racism in your girlboss media of choice is not the same as an incel frothing at the mouth over a woman minding her own business while having fun, and you're frankly telling on yourself if you're equating those two people
Terfism is targeted at radicalising older-middle-aged women in order to sever the otherwise naturally-forming bond that makes trans women and older-middle-aged cis women the strongest of comrades via our shared interests and experiences.
- Know what a faff taking HRT is.
- Can exchange/recommend sources for the large weird shaped clothes they don't sell in department stores.
- Love complaining about things and gossiping about their peers.
It's extremely easy to me to break the ice with a woman in their late 50s or older I just soul read her for what aspect of modern life she desperately wants to complain about for two hours straight and then just complain about it first so she can excitedly join in.
it's ok to be horny! it's good to be perverted! your sexuality isn't shameful and the things that turn you on are good and should be celebrated!!! even if its weird!!!! especially if it's weird and fucked up!!!!!!!!!!!!! FUCK!
what the actual fuck
we did it everyone. we’re no longer allowed to talk about the CISGENDER MALE CHEST because it’s sexually explicit
this plus that sfw trans comic getting flagged and then my repost of it also getting flagged just really depresses me. this doesn't even show anything that could be deemed sexual, it doesn't even show a trans person, and it still got flagged. we're so obviously not wanted here, and yet other big social media is even more hostile
honestly, the weirdest thing about being a detransitioner and embracing femininity is that it was drag queens and trans women who made me realize womanhood can be accepting and FUN instead of a social expectation. Sitting in the drag bar with a hard whisky, beard, and jean jacket was great, heeled cowboy boots are great, being addressed as "Sir" and the ability to safely enter a men's bathroom and be assumed cisgender was a hard earned one. I got lucky on the genetics lottery, and I'll admit that. Being a long-haired, pretty cowboy was my gender ideal, and I achieved it!
But then I saw how much fun the girls were having and kind of missed it. Don't get me wrong, I'm mostly friends with women and effeminate queers.
Now I've fully detransitioned the other way, I got to trans my gender THREE TIMES NOW. Medically. [I didn't get top surgery] I'm not really sure if this has to do with growing up in a very bigoted and unaccepting environment (the south), but I feel beautiful and confident lately. Currently, I identify as a bisexual woman with a masculine personality.
I just want to tell all the struggling boys, men, and queers out there that you're seen and your emotions are real. Someone loves you, and if it needs to be me, then I'll love you too. Keep your heads high kings. 💕🌻💖
In the spirit of "I'd rather you just called me a slur" I'm beginning to become so fucking infuriated with how many people have started treating the word transandrophobia itself as a fucking punchline. "Wow isnt me using it as if it was a real thing so funny? Isnt it so funny how I'm insinuating that its not real and you're all whiny little kids who just want to be oppressed so bad?" Like no it actually isnt but I'd rather you say that shit outright instead of hiding behind "oh no it's just jokes" or whatever
Anonymous:
have you made a baeddel blocklist yet?
I recommend getting comfortable with the fact that you will encounter people who suck on the internet, developing your ability to understand why certain things suck and why certain ways of thinking are harmful, and committing to simply blocking people you do not want to interact with as you come across them. instead of relying on strangers to tell you who you should or should not talk to.
I say this with as much compassion as possible, knowing I have used blocklists in the past: you do not know what my standards are for categorizing someone as a “baeddel” (as opposed to, say, a random trans woman who has some unpacked baggage about masculinity). You should not trust that I will be sufficiently diligent and discerning when placing people on such a list. Maybe you’re willing to take that risk when blocking people on your own blog, but you definitely shouldn’t be comfortable seeing that kind of list posted publicly to a blog with thousands of followers. Particularly when trans women are facing a lot of unprompted harassment as it is, and are coming under fire from tumblr staff themselves.
Baeddelism is harmful, and I don’t think it’s a bad idea to block anyone who proudly- with full knowledge of what that word means- calls themselves one right now. I’m not going to circulate a list of trans women with bad opinions, though, and I really caution you to think about what that ask really means.
Anonymous:
have you made a baeddel blocklist yet?
I recommend getting comfortable with the fact that you will encounter people who suck on the internet, developing your ability to understand why certain things suck and why certain ways of thinking are harmful, and committing to simply blocking people you do not want to interact with as you come across them. instead of relying on strangers to tell you who you should or should not talk to.
I say this with as much compassion as possible, knowing I have used blocklists in the past: you do not know what my standards are for categorizing someone as a “baeddel” (as opposed to, say, a random trans woman who has some unpacked baggage about masculinity). You should not trust that I will be sufficiently diligent and discerning when placing people on such a list. Maybe you’re willing to take that risk when blocking people on your own blog, but you definitely shouldn’t be comfortable seeing that kind of list posted publicly to a blog with thousands of followers. Particularly when trans women are facing a lot of unprompted harassment as it is, and are coming under fire from tumblr staff themselves.
Baeddelism is harmful, and I don’t think it’s a bad idea to block anyone who proudly- with full knowledge of what that word means- calls themselves one right now. I’m not going to circulate a list of trans women with bad opinions, though, and I really caution you to think about what that ask really means.
Why are y'all still using the word 'Middle East'. We've had this conversation already.
Anyways for the last time: Don't. Tag. My posts. As 'Middle East news' or Middle Eastern Politics or whatever else. Use SWANA if you want. Use Palestinian / Lebanese / Iraqi politics whatever else I'm posting about. But seriously I'm tired of seeing that colonial term being thrown around. We're not the 'Middle East' of anything except Europe. Stop centering them in the world. We belong to the continent of Asia. We are in a specific region of it.
this honestly just came out of left fucking field i would have never expected to hear anything like this in this show. consider me Pleasantly Surprised tbh
This was the autism episode
people seem to forget that house was a multiply disabled man, so it should be a given that he’d be against eugenics and eugenicist doctors
sometimes u will be the only person fagging it up. sometimes it'll be hard. but u gotta do it. u gotta show all the fags that fagging it up is the way. u must strive to fag it as much as possible. u have a limited time. fag it up and dyke it out
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