Hey my name’s Marc. I’m a disabled furry of color and a queer, intersex sculptor from Honolulu. Pictured above is my fursona, and we both use 他/祂 pronouns and he pronouns with prior permission.
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Hey my name’s Marc. I’m a disabled furry of color and a queer, intersex sculptor from Honolulu. Pictured above is my fursona, and we both use 他/祂 pronouns and he pronouns with prior permission.
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trans women's voices ARE important in the discussion of transandrophobia. it's good to have their perspectives. a lot of posts about transandrophobia are really improved by additions by trans women– there are really good posts about transandrophobia entirely made by trans women. the key is that they don't view trans men's perspectives as at inherently odds with theirs, or less important or less knowledgeable than theirs. they don't think that trans men need trans women's approval to discuss and theorize on our experiences. they want to engage in that discussion as a family.
Anonymous:
hey just so u know as a disability activist it's rlly important that social murder also has a definition that isn't abt literal death. it's important in disability activism to refer to the status of being so completely cut off from society that u literally don't exist within it, liek the underclass of us that don't work, and all of society assumes we die and don't exist, essentially cutting us off from existence itself--zero ability to have friendships or romantic relationships, yes, but also just like. can't go to the grocery story, can't get medical care, basically trapped in a home or care facility 24/7 and at the mercy of an authority figure. now obviously this is not how radfems use it but i do think its important to not make fun of the definitions that do not include physical death because they're important too, there's just misuse and misunderstanding on tumblr, like how a lot of radfems misunderstand and misuse the word intersectionality but the real definition is still useful and true. i would even acknowledge a similar thing can and does happen to transfems through malicious social dynamics stuff instead of disability, ive seen it happen, but it's not really the girls who say this shit on tumblr, the ones ive seen it happen to are like homeless sex workers in the local diy scene who got disappeared after accusations.
I don’t think that’s at odds with what’s been said about it. The point isn’t that a death must necessarily have occurred, but that death, in the long run, is the intent and often the result.
re: this post
i honestly don't know how people will say this with their whole pussy and then expect trans men to want to be around them at all. like are we just supposed to be fine with being treated as a threat by nature until proven innocent. where do they even draw the line between actual men and people they perceive as men. how butch does a butch have to be to count as dangerous then. do pre-transition/closeted trans women count. where do non-monogender men factor into this. what percentage of man does one have to be to become a threat. i have so many questions.
and like. at what point is that not just "imagine letting DANGEROUS MEN in DRESSES go into WOMEN'S BATHROOMS or be AROUND CHILDREN 😰 it's soooo unsafe!!1!!1!!" transphobic and anti-drag slop but repackaged to be palatable to trans inclusionary radfems. we are never making it out of bioessentialist hell.
Fucking exactly. It’s always the exact same underlying logic that gets used against trans women and I’m so sick of it and the pretense that it helps me.
Bio-essentialism and gender-essentialism rhyme to the point that they can end up wrapping right back around onto each other.
it really is "are men wired to be evil from birth or is evil a deliberate choice they make when they ignore/abandon wymynhood"
OP blocked me and I was so annoyed by the post that without there being a response to reply to I just deleted it because it irritated me so badly lmao
I apparently misremembered and she did not block me
still fucking irritating, though