hey just so u know as a disability activist it's rlly important that social murder also has a definition that isn't abt literal death. it's important in disability activism to refer to the status of being so completely cut off from society that u literally don't exist within it, liek the underclass of us that don't work, and all of society assumes we die and don't exist, essentially cutting us off from existence itself--zero ability to have friendships or romantic relationships, yes, but also just like. can't go to the grocery story, can't get medical care, basically trapped in a home or care facility 24/7 and at the mercy of an authority figure. now obviously this is not how radfems use it but i do think its important to not make fun of the definitions that do not include physical death because they're important too, there's just misuse and misunderstanding on tumblr, like how a lot of radfems misunderstand and misuse the word intersectionality but the real definition is still useful and true. i would even acknowledge a similar thing can and does happen to transfems through malicious social dynamics stuff instead of disability, ive seen it happen, but it's not really the girls who say this shit on tumblr, the ones ive seen it happen to are like homeless sex workers in the local diy scene who got disappeared after accusations.

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i honestly don't know how people will say this with their whole pussy and then expect trans men to want to be around them at all. like are we just supposed to be fine with being treated as a threat by nature until proven innocent. where do they even draw the line between actual men and people they perceive as men. how butch does a butch have to be to count as dangerous then. do pre-transition/closeted trans women count. where do non-monogender men factor into this. what percentage of man does one have to be to become a threat. i have so many questions.
and like. at what point is that not just "imagine letting DANGEROUS MEN in DRESSES go into WOMEN'S BATHROOMS or be AROUND CHILDREN 😰 it's soooo unsafe!!1!!1!!" transphobic and anti-drag slop but repackaged to be palatable to trans inclusionary radfems. we are never making it out of bioessentialist hell.

this paragraph gives me so many questions like a. Do you think the "south asian old man on the bus" would be any less judgemental of a boy with cat ears spasming away? Also is wearing cat ears what makes you TMA now? Cause if so I didn't know I had recently joined the club